2009年10月11日 星期日
My parents always worry too much
I always think about things in a positive way. Every time I share something I like with my parents, they always said some drawbacks about the person or things I share with them. One time, when the semester started, I told my dad that I think my new teacher will be great because she looks so kind and speaks tenderly. Then my dad said “Maybe she just looks kind, but actually she is very strict.” I was so mad about what he said because I still believed that she was the teacher who I thought to be. During the dinner, my mom said the same thing again. I was angry and couldn’t understand why they kept saying something bad on what I think to be good. I didn’t want the response like this. I want them to be glad about the thing I like to share with them. After feeling unhappy for few minutes, my sister told me that my parents were trying to protect me. Because things all have two aspects, one is good and one is bad, I should not only think of the good side but also consider the bad side. My parents worry that I will get hurt if I teach the bad side of what I think to be good. I know that they say this is for my own good, but I still think that they worry too much. However, I still should be thankful about what they do for me and try to accept their warming in a polite way. By the way, my parents are right. My teacher is really strict.
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Actually, the topic of this week reminds me of one book I read before. The main character in the book is a genius girl. Her IQ is over two hundred. As a result, she studies in the college when she is twelve years old. She feels lonely because she doesn’t have any friends in school. All of her classmates are over twenty years old and she cannot get along with them. After all, she is just a twelve-year-old girl. Therefore, she just makes friends with novels and she always reads the novels in her free time. However, her parents ask her not to read the novels anymore because they want her to focus only on her school work. They also hire a tutor to take care of her, but actually, they hire the tutor because they want the tutor to report to them everything their daughter does. Finally, she leaves her home because she cannot stand anymore. Even worse, she wants to commit suicide. Fortunately, at the end, her parents find her and they stop giving pressure to her.
回覆刪除Many parents always say they do something for their children but what they do is not what the children want. So the conflicts between parents and children become worse. For example, many parents send their children to learn talents without their children’s agreement. Some children do not want to learn the talent, but their parents do not listen to them. Then, their children become unhappy. Even worse, some get depression. Therefore, I think that parents should always ask children for advices in what they want to do. Parents and children can always communicate with each other so that parents know what their children want to do best, and children can understand what their parents do has good intention. Then, the conflicts between each other would never happen anymore.
I think that you got the point. Parents should know what their childrend want. I think both parents and childrend should learn to talk about what they are thinking in their mind to each other. Communication is very important.
回覆刪除Yes,communication plays an important role between people.
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